The online world tends to step into our life, world and imagination. Coloring our thoughts and unfortunately can do so with relationships, with dating and online relationship sites these days. Lets seek to go deeper and discover friendships between a man and a woman as a subject of wonder and selfless joy.
Among the most beautiful wonders of the world is the human ability to develop, savor and appreciate friendships with the opposite sex without the cumbersome and painful baggage of juvenile approach to dating and relationships between men and women today even as found online.
Contrary to an apparently prevailing trend in the sexualizing of society even through the online relationship profiles, moral integrity still is ever present especially with the Christian dating sites online. The continuation of a stable, civil social infrastructure depends upon the ability of adults to demonstrate adult behavior and a mature regard and respect for one another. Women tend to have no problems relating to other women. Lacking a regard for normal adult behavior would obviously throw a developing world into an environment not dis-similar to that of sodom and Gomorrah prior to it’s inevitable end in ancient times.
Obviously we live in a world that plays host to a wide variety of nationalities and much is to be found with online relationship and social networking websites, but there remains only two genders: male and female. What this means to us is that we are surrounded everyday by thousands of people who are our gender opposite, many of whom we find ourselves in close working proximity with. At some point we find it necessary to decide how we will choose to relate to our gender opposite and the state of mind we have resigned ourselves to has everything to do with the success or failure of our human experience.
Fortunately there is much worthwhile information to found online regarding this at the various relationship websites, blogs and resources for online personal networking and dating and women and men relationships as well as many a author and psychologist to aid in shedding light on the need both women and men have that would allow a very healthy platonic relationship in the area of mutual friendship.
For some of us the necessity of making a deliberate decision to develop and exhibit mature behavior regarding the opposite sex is an epiphany. From somewhere deep within an overly stimulated, adolescent imagination the aphorisms, the aspect of a friendship as mutually agreed upon and chosen by a man and a woman would require self control and moderation. Know thyself. At this juncture the option of men and women actually cultivating benign friendships looms on the horizon as a distinct possibility.
We come away feeling liberated from the mental-emotional constraints of a scandalous social mindset which is oft crept this day and age. We emerge from darkened animalistic disregard for self-control and respect for purity to a personal dawn on the concepts of internal peace, moral decency, and … Read More